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How Life Can Change When You’re With Someone Right For You

How Life Can Change When You’re With Someone Right For You

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It can be hard to find ‘the right person’ for you, and it can be hard to be the right person for someone else. When this happens, we know about it. It can feel like the world has somehow conspired to ensure the two of us meet, allowing us to bathe in enjoying one another’s company. However, after being in a bad relationship for some time, it can be hard to open yourself up to this, or think what it might look like.

Of course, first we should state that rushing into any relationship before you’ve had time to gather yourself and feel comfortable on your own is a bad idea. If you can’t love yourself, being with someone else is always something that leads to frustration. However, we hope to use this post to show you just what you stand to gain should you wait for the right person, and keep your standards high. After all, you are absolutely worth it. Here are some signs that might guide you in future:

They’re Your Best Friend

Friendship is actually a purer version of love than romantic love. Romantic love expects something of the other, it expects to be connected, it’s quite intense with those sentiments. But friendship simply wishes the other to be well, and is hardly as possessive as romance. This is why it can be a great idea to befriend the person beforehand, or know that even if you weren’t romantic together, you would be friends no matter what. When friendship comes easy, that’s an excellent sign that things could possibly work out.

You Feel Less Sure, But In A Good Way

It can often feel that when we’re single, everything is certain. We might not believe we were ever going to have kids, or that we would ever like to get married. But when you find someone right for you, you might start questioning those decisions. You’ll know when the power of this relationship can help you change your mind, because it will shock the old you. You might even consider tying the knot or considering a reversal vasectomy as a matter of principle, rather than anything else. In other words, the right relationship can often make you feel less sure in what you may have believed completely before, and as long as that’s completely consensual, that could be a good thing.

You Won’t Tread On Egg-Shells

Many relationships can often feel like you’re having to tread on egg-shells around certain topics. A sense of fear of offending the other can often take over, and once you kowtow too many times to this, it can be the standard in your relationship. When you meet the right person for you, this is no longer a regular occurence. In fact, it can be a sign of worry if things ever start to feel that way. Open and honest communication, not limitation, is likely to set the standard here.

With this advice, we hope you’re much better able to ensure you find Mr or Ms/Miss Right.

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Singles Everywhere Can Benefit From This Savvy Dating Advice

Singles Everywhere Can Benefit From This Savvy Dating Advice

Love it or hate it, being single is the reality for many of us, and that often means dipping our toes into the water of the dating sea. Of course, the experience we can have while doing this can be at best variable, and at worst, …disastrous. Luckily, there is some advice that will help you make the most of the best dates, and make quick exit from the bad ones. Read on to find out more.

 

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Do give people a chance.

 

It’s easy to think that we know exactly what we want from a partner before we even meet them, and this can lead to eliminating people before we have ever really got to know them.

 

Now I’m not saying that if someone is behaving poorly on a first date, you should just stay and let them get away with it. However, if you really want to have a more successful dating life, you should try and not let things like dress sense, or even hairstyles become deal breakers if they don’t need to be.

 

Don’t agree to a whole meal on a first date.

 

One of the smartest things you can do to improve your dating life is never to agree to go for a full meal on a first date. Yup, that right go for a drink or for coffee only.

 

Then you can make a sharp exit if they turn about to be someone that you know you’re not interested in, and you can avoid all that nasty awkwardness of sitting through a meal when all you really want to do is bolt from the room.

 

Do say what you really want.

 

Online dating has only increased the number of game players in the dating pool. In fact, despite specific sites geared towards no string attached hookups, you will still find a considerable proportion of people on genuine dating sites that are much more interested in the chase than actually settling down, even if their profile says they want nothing more than to get married.

 

Of course, you can’t control the behavior of others, and it might be best to steer clear of mentioning in any specific wedding details that you have in mind on a first date. However, there is nothing wrong with stating precisely what you are looking for including a long-term serious relationship if that is your ultimate aim. Who knows you might get lucky and find someone else that genuinely wants the same!

 


Don’t get distracted by your phone.

 

One of the most annoying things about modern dating is the preoccupation most people have with their phone. In fact, using a smartphone constantly sends a terrible signal to the person they are on a date with that they aren’t as important as whoever is messaging.

 

Therefore, it’s wise to put your phone away and try to truly listen to the person that was in front of you. After all, if this is a human that you will potentially be spending the rest of your life with, isn’t it worth giving them at least an hour of your time to get to know them and assesses whether you would be a good match?

 

Do try different ways of meeting people.

 

When you are single, every social event can seem like a grueling trial you need to get through to meet ‘the one.’ However, you don’t have to be always on the lookout for a potential soul mate in your social or work life, because there are so many other ways of meeting people available.

 

In particular, you may wish to try online dating, group meetups, or even chat lines instead. In fact, you can even get free gay chat line numbers online and try out this type of service to see if it suits you. All without having to invest any of your own money, or make the rest of your life one long obsessional quest to find a partner.

 

Do remember that there is more to life than finding ‘the one’.

 

The thing with modern society is that we are all so obsessed about finding that one single person that will be our soulmate for the rest of our lives. However, life doesn’t always work out that way, and that is OK too.

 

After all, some people meet their soulmate, and then things change or tragedy strikes! Others meet the right person for a particular time in their lives, and others still have a happy and fulfilling time alone. Just remember that life is much bigger than just finding ‘the one,’ so don’t let yourself be completely caught up on dating and do other fulfilling things as well.

 

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Unlucky in Love? Turn Your Luck Around With These 3 Simple Tips

Unlucky in Love? Turn Your Luck Around With These 3 Simple Tips

 

As a teenager, it seems so easy to find someone, fall in love and live happily ever after. But as you grow older, you soon realize that it is not as easy as you think. Falling in love is easy but finding a serious relationship is very difficult. It is so difficult that a lot of people believe that it is easier to win in a casino rather than finding true love.

 

 

People believe that “luck” plays a role in finding the right relationship. You will often hear people say “Wow! You’re so lucky to find true love.”. There are people who are perceived as “lucky” and “unlucky” in love.

 

Are There People Who Are Unlucky In Love?

 

Actually, luck has nothing to do with love. It is what we do that makes us become unlucky in love. There are ways for us to find the right love.

 

How to Turn Your Luck Around?

 

Since luck has no significant role in finding a long-term relationship, you can turn your “unlucky” love life upside down.  Here are three simple tips on how to be “lucky” in love.

 

Right Place

 

In finding the right love, you have to look in the right place. You have to consider the type of people that go to a certain place. If you go to a bar, you will likely meet people who love to party and drink. If you like this kind of people, then you are in luck. However, if you don’t like that kind of people, then don’t go to the bar.

 

To find the person you want, you should go to a place of common interest. If you like reading, then go to the library or bookstore. You will likely meet someone there that loves reading too. If you want to meet someone who enjoy fitness and exercise, then go to gym. If you want interracial dating for black and white singles, then go online dating.

 

The first step in finding the right person is meeting them at the right places. Therefore go to the place where most people, with the same interest as you or possess the qualities you want, go. However, there are times that the right person is in the wrong place or vice versa. So be sure to know if that person is what you really want.

 

 

Right Person

 

There are a lot of people out there that are not good for you. Meeting these types of people all the time will make you think that you are bad at love. To find the right person is making sure that you know what you really want.

 

What do you like in a man or woman? Make a list if you have to. Then, find out if that person you meet has those qualities. But take note, make sure these qualities are what you really want and what will make you happy.

 

For example, there are women who like guys that give off bad boy vibes. However, most of this type of guys will not treat their woman right. Then, women will realize that all they want is a decent guy who will treat them right. So before making that similar mistake, be clear in what you really want.

 

Right Action

 

Actually, finding the right person at the right place is a bit easy. The real difficulty begins after you meet him or her. The next goal is how to keep this person in a relationship with you. You have to take the right actions.

 

In taking the right action, you must know how the person responds to you. If you feel that he or she trust you, you can take your relationship up a notch. However, if you sense that he or she is reserved around you, then take things slow. Putting the right actions in your relationship can make your partner stay long… or even forever.

 

So in short, finding the right one is not luck. This is because anyone can find true love without luck. All you have to do is go to the right place, be sure of what type of person is the right one for you, and know what actions are you going to do to make him or her want to be with you.

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