By Tia Cristy
Stupid Tip of the Day: People Can’t Change.
You’ve heard the sayings, “A leopard can’t change it’s spots” or “a Tiger can’t change it’s stripes”. Okay, but the one that is really not true is, “A person can’t change”.
People aren’t animals. People can evolve with their attitudes, emotions, mentality, spirituality and even physically. Change is inevitable for humans.
If a person continues to behave in a way that is unacceptable, and you think, a person will never change, it’s actually an individual being stubborn according to scientific studies. As a person, we desire and welcome positive changes in our lives and patterns. A person that refuses to change their patterns, is actually working really hard to stay that way; instead of allowing themselves a natural positive progression of life.
Example, a person of a younger age is able to stay up, be out all night, still work an 8 hour day the next day and attempt to go out again that following night. A person fighting the aging process will try to do the same thing and become extremely irritable and possibly make it through the night, but have to call out of work the next day. Even if they can make it through the event, their bodies can’t keep up. The change is inevitable. Don’t allow yourself to fall victim of the mid-life crisis.
Another example, a young adult can make one thing their number one priority. Yet, after life experiences and changes; their priorities are inevitably going to change because they, themselves have inevitably changed.
If you or someone you know has been labeled as lazy, greedy, a liar, selfish, petty, a thief, a cheater, a gossip, mean, childish, etc. there is always an opportunity for change. These are not personalities, but have become habits, and habits can be broken if desired.
So, if you find yourself in a rut or self-esteem has taken a hit; remember it will change and so will you. Let changes build your character, not crush it. And, if you have been labeled as a person the will never change, stop being stubborn and make a conscious decision to grow in life. It’s natural to evolve and change in a positive way.
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By Tia Cristy
