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Can A Marriage Ever Be The Same After It Gets Personal?

Can A Marriage Ever Be The Same After It Gets Personal?

Marriages are supposed to be rock solid, at least in principle. The two people involved have to be able to throw verbal shots at each other and in the end, it’s all just in fun or positive critique. This is for things like, when your spouse is getting a little overweight and you have to say something otherwise you won’t be attractive to them anymore. It’s the same for when you are acting like a jerk at a party, and your spouse needs to remind you to behave. Things like this should always fall into the realm of ‘safe’ critique. But when things get personal, this can lead to the end of the road. 

When your work is mocked

Perhaps more so for women in the modern age than men, when your job or profession is mocked by your spouse, it can tear a rift between you. Women and men are very sensitive about their work, and the only kind of words they want from their wife or husband are supportive. When your spouse starts to mock your working hours, how dedicated you are, how much time you spend doing work at home, this can lead to big differences.

Imagine being so passionate about something that you dedicate your life to it, and then, your wife starts to make it seem like what you do is unimportant. Or how about when you have gotten a big promotion that you have dreamed of, and your husband says ‘you love your job more than the marriage’? This is something that cannot be taken any other way, other than personal. Don’t do this if you want to have a nice marriage!

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When violence is involved

This next one is pretty easy to understand, yet difficult to pick up when it’s you in the middle. It’s normal to sort of hit each other, but in a playful or nonchalant want. When your husband just won’t pick his feet up so you can vacuum under the table, then you can give him a little pinch on his feet or leg. That’s normal. But, when you are pinched really hard for not doing something they wanted, such as at parties or while out in public. This is abuse.

When it gets worse and you are being punched, kicked, scratched or otherwise, then you should consider calling Divorce Lawyers. They will build up a case of the pressure you have been under and make any family court judge consider you when it comes to child custody. If you want to consider child support, then call up the lawyers and ask them what they could do for you. 

Constant nitpicking

When your partner is constantly dragging you down on your appearance, this is either something you should take for a complaint, or something personal. It depends on how many times they do this. If you know you’re overweight, then consider losing weight. But when you are doing great, keeping fit and taking care of yourself but they are still nitpicking, this is something that is personal and beyond what a lover should do.

Marriage is never something to be taken for granted and when things get personal, it can often spell the end. So avoid doing these things, or spot them when they are happening to you.

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3 Holistic Health Tips to Enhance Your Wellbeing

3 Holistic Health Tips to Enhance Your Wellbeing


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Life inevitably contains a certain degree of suffering. We’re all mortal, and we all have to contend with things like illness and injury sooner or later, not to mention relationship problems, arguments with our loved ones, stressful days at work, financial hardship, and all the rest of it.

But that is by means to say that life isn’t also wondrous, beautiful, and filled with joy and profoundly positive connections, just so long as we’re willing to look — and fight — for them.

Along the way, anything that can improve our overall wellbeing, without taking too heavy a toll in other areas of our lives, is a great boon. On that note, here are a few holistic health tips that may significantly improve your wellbeing.

Consider experimenting with vegan and ketogenic diets

Evidence has linked both strict ketogenic (high fat, moderate protein, virtually zero carbohydrates of any type, including most fruit and veg) and vegan diets with some tremendous health benefits — including improved cognitive function, and potential cancer-fighting benefits.

Both diets have also been linked to increased energy levels, superior mental function, and improved mood — including a lower prevalence of depression.

Either diet might or might not work for you, but the key point here is that what you eat can have a tremendous impact on how you feel on a day-to-day basis. It would be well worth your time to investigate and experiment with diets such as these, and to maintain a strong degree of interest in nutrition in general.

Take herbal supplements and extracts that have few listed side effects

Many of the more conventional and well-researched herbal supplements that you’ll find on the shelves of shops in the Western world, benefit from having far fewer — and less potentially harmful — side effects than serious prescription drugs.

CBD oil, for example, has been linked to many striking benefits, including powerful antioxidant and disease-fighting qualities, and an apparent ability to improve mood.

Of course, you should use a CBD dosage chart if you’re planning to use CBD oil — and you should be sure to adhere to the various dosage recommendations of any herbal supplements or remedies you may be taking. Just because they come from plants, doesn’t mean you can’t seriously harm yourself by misusing them.

Get some regular feel-good exercise on a daily basis

Exercise releases feel-good endorphins in the body, promotes growth and health in the brain via the release of the hormone BDNF, and, of course, has positive impacts on heart and lung health, blood sugar control, and all sorts of different metrics.

Many people have the mistaken idea that in order to experience any of the benefits of exercise they need to run marathons, or spend hours a day on intense and gruelling workouts that leave the floor soaked in sweat. That’s an unfortunate myth.
Even just going for regular walks, or doing a light yoga routine each day, can lead to significant improvements in your overall health and sense of wellbeing.

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