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What To Look For In A New Car This Year

What To Look For In A New Car This Year

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When it comes to life, there are always going to be things that you need to upgrade, it’s very much just the way of things. However, this can also be expensive. Because things only ever last so long, and then you need to find something new. But this is exactly why we need to be aware of what we’re going to need to pay out for, and then start to save up for it. One of the areas of your life that this very much applies to, is your car. Because they just don’t last forever. And sure, you are going to find that you’re able to look after your car well to prolong its life, but sometimes, that can cost you an awful lot of money. So, it can be a good idea to make sure that you’re upgrading your car over the course of a period of time.

Now, if you know that it’s time to make an upgrade on your vehicle, you’re probably looking for the right deals to come your way. But at the same time, to make sure that you’re able to get the right car for your budget and your family, you do then also need to make sure that you know what you need. To do this, it’s handy to have priorities. As this can help you to narrow down options. So let’s take a look at what some of them could be.

Style

To start with, let’s talk about style. This is all about the image. While this won’t be important to everybody, because substance is so very often more important than style, maybe you want a nice car to drive around in. For this, you’re going to want to make sure that you’re considering some of the most stylish cars that are around today. This could be the Lexus LC Coupe, or maybe even the sporty little Audi TT Coupe? Think about what kind of look you want from the look of a car if it’s important to you.

Safety

Next, there’s safety to think about. Because for a lot of people, a car needs to do the job and allow you to get from A to B. For this, you’re going to want to look at the safest cars on the market right now. Most of the time, you’re going to be looking at a reliable family car or SUV for this. But definitely consider models that span the different car sizes, as outlined in the following point.

Size

However, it’s important to think about the size of the car that you want too. Do you know what kind of size you need. Maybe you need an SUV, such as the latest Honda models, to fit your family in? Or perhaps you want something smaller just for you? Make sure you’re aware of whether you want a small car, an SUV, or even an executive model. Because also, this then allows you to narrow down your options too.

Efficiency

And then we have the efficiency of the car, or the overall cost. If you know that you don’t want to spend a lot of money on your vehicle, then you need value for money. And not just in the sense of what you’re buying. But also, in how cost effective it is on the road. If you know you want an energy efficient car, this may also be great to run too. Just make sure that you’re considering the cost of insurance, maintenance, and fuel too.

Accessories

If you know that you want set features in the car, it’s very important for you to think about what kinds of accessories that you want. Do you want an entertainment system? Or maybe you want to go for integrated WiFi or Bluetooth? Make sure that you know how you want the car to be finished, because this can then point you in the right direction of your perfect vehicle.

Reliability


Finally, maybe the most important part of buying a new car for you, is that it’s reliable. And this is so important if you drive a lot for work or have a family – as you won’t want to be without a car. So take a look at some of the most reliable models on the market right now. For small cars, this could be a Toyota Yaris, or an Audi A3 as a family car, and then you also have the Volvo V60 as an option for an executive model. So think about these options if you’re looking for something of quality.


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Finding The Best Car Dealer

Finding The Best Car Dealer

Are you on the hunt for a new Vauxhall vehicle? Have you fallen in love with the popular and reliable Corsa? Maybe you have your sights set on a Toyota? Before you can begin daydreaming about the fabulous new car you are going to own, the first thing you need to do is find the best dealer. There are lots of car dealers available on the Internet. This article provides you with all of the advice and information necessary to narrow down your search and find the best one for you.

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Selection of vehicles

The first thing you need to do is take a look at the website and see the selection of vehicles they have on offer. If you have a specific car in mind then you will want to ensure they have a good selection of options to choose from. However, if you can’t make your mind up between an Agila, Astra or an Antara then you need to look for a dealer who has practically all types of cars available. Furthermore, selection doesn’t just relate to the types of cars on display, what about used and new cars? A good dealership will sell both. It is good to go in with an open mind when it comes to this factor. You may find a fantastic used car or you may decide to go down the new route. Just wait and see what pops up. Additional accessories, like BBMC, may also be available, and the best dealers can often give you discounts for things like this.

Payment options

Next, let’s deal with one of the most important options of them all; payment. Of course, you are going to want to look at car dealers who have their vehicles competitively priced. Everyone wants to find a bargain. However, you also need to look for a dealership who offers you flexibility in terms of payment. Everyone is different. We all have different financial situations. Try and find someone who caters to yours. Do they offer finance? What about PCP or a personal lease? Only you know what is right for you. Thus, finding a dealer with various payment solutions is always recommended.

Good reputation

What have previous customers had to say about the vehicle they purchased? What do they have to say about the service they received from the dealership in question? Were they easy to deal with? By reading reviews you will get an honest assessment and you will also get all of the answers to the questions you really want to know. This is the best way to pick up on any red flags and ensure you don’t end up going for a Vauxhall car dealer with a bad reputation.

Insurance options

Finally, the last thing you need to do is assess the insurance options you have available at your disposal. Remember the point about flexibility in regards to payment options? Well, you should also be looking for flexibility in relation to this aspect as well. In fact, if you are lucky you will discover that some of the best dealerships actually offer free insurance for a set period of time on some of their vehicles.

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3 Tips for Avoiding Pain and Heartache in Your Romantic Life

3 Tips for Avoiding Pain and Heartache in Your Romantic Life

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There are, unfortunately, a lot of things that can cause of misery in life — but heartbreak often does the most damage to our sense of wellbeing and our ability to look forward, optimistically, to the future.

Yet there is no heartbreak equivalent to a personal injury lawyer, and no insurance that you can take out on your emotional wellbeing. Instead, all you can do to protect yourself from a broken heart is to be careful of how you act, and to try and put your trust in the right person.

There’s never a guarantee that you won’t experience heartache, and a lot depends on the actions of the other person. But since you can do something about how you act and behave, here are some tips for avoiding unnecessary pain and heartache in your romantic life.

Realise that the thrill you feel at the start of a relationship is different from love — love is something you discover and build over time

A lot of people are constantly hopping from one partner to the next, not because they never connect with their previous partners, or because things are just unbearable, but because they are looking for the wrong thing.

It’s common that serial monogamists will stick with a partner as long as the new-relationship-thrill hangs around. But when that seems to fade, they take it as a sign that it wasn’t real love, and go looking for real love with someone else.

It’s important to understand that the thrill you feel at the start of a relationship is different from love. That thrill is part animal attraction, part the thrill of the chase, and part your own subconscious projections onto the other person.

Love is something that you discover and build over time. Love is the little comments and habits that make you melt. It’s the inside jokes, and the shoulder to cry on during tough times. It’s looking forward to waking up next to your partner.

Make sure that you’re not confusing the two things.

Be truthful and express yourself carefully — even “white lies” can sink everything

They say that honesty is the best policy, and they’re right, especially when it comes to relationships.

If you begin your relationship on a bed of untruth — even if you’re telling “white lies” you only guarantee that bigger lies will be built on top of them over time, and that the trust and health of your relationship will be seriously wounded, or destroyed, sooner or later.

Commit to being completely truthful, and express yourself carefully, instead. If your partner asks “do I do anything that annoys you?” answer gently but truthfully. It’s better than saying “no” and then spending months or years being irritated by their everyday habits, until you lash out during an argument.

Take responsibility for how you act in the relationship, don’t try and force your partner to change how they act

We might all want our partners to behave more in one way, and less in another, but the truth is that no one changes unless that change comes from within.

In your relationship, you should take responsibility for how you act — because that’s in your control.

But you should not try and force your partner to change how they act. It will not work, and it will cause tension, anger, and hurt feelings. At best you can gently ask if they’d be willing to do things differently, then leave it at that.

Ultimately, the best way to get your partner to change is usually to “be the change you want to see.” Act a certain way yourself, let the example rub off, and hope for the best.


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Time to See a Psychologist: When You Feel Like You’re Growing Apart

Time to See a Psychologist: When You Feel Like You’re Growing Apart


Relationships are about growth. You meet, fall in love, and start a life together. It takes time a patience to build a lasting relationship. However, even in the strongest of relationships, everyone has moments of getting weary.

The honeymoon phase is over


It’s a fictitious timeframe when couples stop being on their best behaviors and get real. This is usually the time when the first heated augments occur. This is the time when you might realize your partner’s annoying habits like leaving the toilet seat up all the time. This might be the time you decide not to wear the most alluring under-garments all the time.

Some people dread the idea of the honeymoon phase coming to an end, but this is really the time when couples make it or break it. It’s a lot smoother of a transition if you decide to be real with your partner early on in the relationship.

Seven year stretch


Your relationship had withstood some time and before you realize, you’ve made it to your 7th anniversary. The seven year stretch sounds like fake news, but scientific studies have shown this phase is real for humans. It’s been proven that whether in a relationship or single, people go through a transition every seven years. As couples hit seven years together, it’s a good time to recognize the growth you’ve done as an individual and as a couple. This is the time to set new goals, maintain togetherness, and cultivate the areas in yourself, your partner, and the parts of the relationship that need a little extra TLC.

Prevent Falling Apart


There’s no guarantee or magic that is fireproof nowadays. People grow at different rates, and there are plenty of distractions out there to pull you away from your partner. However, making a conscious choice to remain focused in your relationship is key. Self-control is the only thing you need to be concerned with. You can’t control your partner, nor should you want to. Having a partner is having a mate who can be your equal, or the yin to your yang.

You might not see eye to eye on everything like you once did, but compromise has gotten you two far in your relationship. Like people take vitamins to prevent sickness, why not invest in marriage counseling before there’s a major problem? Talking to a qualified psychologist to help you two through simple disagreements could perhaps prevent big problems down the line.

Remember every flower grows at different rates. So don’t give up on your partner if they are growing in a different direction or at a different speed. It’s just a sign for you to get to pruning and watering your relationship. I love the quote by Neil Barringham, ‘The grass is greener where you water it’.

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Couples Therapy: Choosing to Live Together

Couples Therapy: Choosing to Live Together


There once was a time when young girls and boys made dreams and plans on whom they were going to marry. However, it seems like times have changed, and 20-somethings aren’t running down the alter as fast as their parents did.

Millennials Saying ‘I Don’t’

Today with the divorce ratio so high, studies show those that the now young adults are choosing to live together instead of making their commitment legal. In fact, these same studies are showing couples maintaining a more loving relationship with higher prospects of longevity.

Commitment Without ‘I Do’


Many couples start out ‘talking’. If they really feel a connection, they become ‘exclusive’. But then what, what’s next? For starters, it seems like the true commitment nowadays starts at the point of exclusivity. Choosing to be in a healthy, monogamous relationship is a start in the right direction. However, older generations might not understand the choice of living out of wedlock. They might even think the way Millennials handle being committed to one another is simply a strong mindset to no longer swipe left or right on a dating app. But let’s be honest, it’s so much more than that…

Choosing Who to be Exclusive With

It’s always been important throughout the ages to choose the right partner in life. But today, I think couples aren’t afraid to wait for the right person. Not many women in today’s world fear being an classified as an ‘old maid’. Thanks to Destiny’s Child, woman celebrate their financial independence. Men also have no shame in waiting. Couples dig deeper, looking to one another in how this relationship makes sense on all-levels, not solely based on the feeling of being head-over-heels in love.

Time for You to Move In

Establishing some boundaries in the beginning of living together is important because as time goes on, in any relationship, married or not, boundaries form as well as breakdown. When you have an idea of what one another expects or needs, it’s not a total shock when you find out how your partner really lives 24/7.

Fighting like Your Married


Just because you didn’t cut a cake together doesn’t mean you won’t have rough times. Relationships are meant to have growing pains. Just because a couple isn’t married, doesn’t mean you’re allowed to be self-serving all the time. A relationship is about devotion. Make time for one another, plan dates, divvy up the chores, and give each other safe spaces. These are the things that keep a relationship strong without building resentment. And now I should mention, just because you’re not married doesn’t give you a free pass to cut and run when times get hard. Because guess what, times may get hard. It’s part of life whether you’re single, in a relationship or married. Couples therapy has become very mainstream. Speaking to a counselor, instead of your closest friends could be more beneficial in your relationship.

Marriage Isn’t Off the Table

Just because you choose to not get married today doesn’t mean it never can happen. Plenty of long-term couples start families, and then decide to tie the knot down the line. It is true that it’s easier to ‘Do’ than un-do a marriage. But as long as you and your partner are on the same page about making a vow of commitment without the legal paperwork, building a happy life together, with or without children, is absolutely possible. Remember, fairytales are what you make of them.

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Avoiding Embarrassment When It’s Time For Bed

Avoiding Embarrassment When It’s Time For Bed

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Sleeping with someone for the first time can often be a very daunting event. Having only known the person for a short time, it will be very hard to tell how they will want to go through something like this. Of course, though, the worst part about going to bed with someone for the first time is the prospect of embarrassment. To give you an idea of what goes into this, this post will be exploring some of the work which can be done to ensure that you don’t have to deal with shame when you find yourself swept up by the fun.

Keep It Clean

After a long day of walking around and having fun, most people will be in need of a little bit of a freshen up. This isn’t something you’ll always have time for, though, and this means looking for ways to keep yourself clean without having to take five in the bathroom. Websites like the Scary Mommy blog are great when you’re looking for advice in this area. It can be hard to talk to those around you about personal hygiene, but blogs don’t judge.

Dress To Impress

The clothing you wear says a lot about you, and is one of the earliest impressions someone will have when they meet you. Of course, though, when you’re going to bed, these garments will be coming off, and it will be the ones underneath which you’re most concerned about. There are loads of underwear options which are designed to be both pretty and comfortable, nowadays, and this means that you no longer have to choose.

Be Honest

There will always be aspects of your body which you feel worried about, even if you spend loads of time working on it. By simply being honest about this, you can find yourself in a great position, and the person you are with is likely to feel a whole lot more comfortable, as a result. Of course, there are some things which you won’t want to talk about. If you’re worried about something superficial, though, like hair or scars, you don’t have much to worry about.

Do Your Part

This sort of experience can be embarrassing for anyone; not just you. This means that your partner is also likely to be a little worried about your potential reaction to their body, and this is something worth considering. Even if something takes you by surprise, you should work hard to make as little of it as possible, as this will help to keep both parties happy. There is nothing worse than having someone look shocked or amused when they see you naked.

With all of this in mind, you should be feeling ready to take control of the time you spend with others in bed. Feeling embarrassed should never be a part of spending time with someone else like this, thought a lot of people find themselves experiencing it. If you need more help with this, it could be worth talking to a sex expert, as this field can get very complex.


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This Is How To Embrace Wellness

This Is How To Embrace Wellness

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The way we look at health is changing. It’s very much changing. Because years before, it was easy to think that you had to have a really rigorous workout routine and diet in order to be healthy. It was really that black and white. But now, we’re learning. Because there’s a lot more to being healthy. So much so that it definitely fits way more in the realm of ‘wellness’ than anything else. Because it’s more about your mind and your emotional state and not just your body overall. This is where a lot of people tend to trip up. So instead of putting a lot of pressure on your body, and wanting it to look a certain way, it’s better to look after yourself instead. To help you to do that, let’s take a look at how you can embrace wellness.

1. Drink More Water

One of the best ways to start off, is for you to drink more water. Our bodies are made up of water. So it’s essential that you’re staying hydrated and replenishing your stores. The easiest way for you to do this is to take a bottle around with you and drink two liters.

2. Prioritize Your Sleep

Next up, you need to make sure that you’re sleeping a lot more. Or, more specifically, better. Because your heal when you sleep. So it’s important for you to get yourself into a sleep routine that is going to feel great.

3. Workout In Different Ways

When it comes to working out and what you choose to do here, you should definitely think about trying new things. Because there are so many different benefits to yoga or running or playing sports – you don’t have to just join a gym. Instead, find a workout you love, and stick to that.

4. Put Your Body First

Then, you’re going to want to make sure that you are being a lot kinder to your body. Yes, working out is important, but it’s not the only thing that matters. If you know that you need to do rebab work after meeting with a car accident attorney, book in with a specialist. If you know that you need to just have more rest days for your body to heal, that’s okay. Even monthly massages and daily stretching can help. So just put your body first.

5. Care For Your Mind

And finally, you absolutely need to make sure that you’re looking after your mind. This is something that not everyone will realize is such a big part of your health and wellbeing. But really, it can control everything. If you are in a good place mentally, it’s going to allow you to work a lot more on how you feel in yourself, and the shape of your body. So try to avoid stress. Slow down a little. Allow yourself to relax a lot more. With a healthier and clearer mind, you’re in the best position to live a happier life.


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Stay Well In 2019

Stay Well In 2019

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The year 2019 has finally arrived, and it’s about that time where we reflect on new ways to start the year right in order to better ourselves, stay safe, and of course, be happy. But the big question is, how do we do that? What changes do we need to make in order to achieve all of those things and more?

Well, the best way to figure this out is to break everything down simply, and focus on all of these things individually so you can really look at what positive changes you can make.

Here are some examples to get you onto the right track.

Look after your body

Now is a better time than any to make a lifestyle change that betters your health. Looking after yourself is so important because you have the power to extend your life and make it more enjoyable just by what choices you make. The food you eat is essentially your driving force, so you want to make sure that you’re putting good things into your body that you require for it to work and function properly. Fruit, veggies, vitamins, minerals, and all the other good stuff is a must. This doesn’t mean that you can’t have your favourite naughty snacks once in a while, it just means have them in moderation. Pair that up with regular exercise to keep your heart pumping and your blood flowing, and you will feel great.

Cover yourself

We all know that accidents can happen when we least expect, and when they do come about it can be a very difficult time and make you feel as if you have absolutely no control. And for the most part, that’s because there are in fact many things in life that we, unfortunately, have no control over, but because of this, you should ensure you focus on the things that you can. So if for example, you find yourself in a car accident that wasn’t your fault, and you’ve been hurt as a result, and your vehicle has been damaged – don’t sit around feeling sorry for yourself – do something about it. These car accident lawyers are exactly who you need on your side to fight in your corner and get you all the compensation and care that you so rightly deserve.

Surround yourself with positivity

There is no better way to uplift your spirit and better your life, than by making sure you spend your time surrounded by positivity. This can mean a number of things, from the people you hang around with, to the job that you’re doing. If you have a career that brings you down and makes you dread waking up in the morning, then it’s time to find something else. Yes, money will always be an important factor, but happiness is something that you can’t live without otherwise there’s just no point to anything. So no matter how hard a decision may be, if you know deep down it isn’t right for you – change it.


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