These Amazing Tips Can Stop You Becoming A Dreaded Bridezilla
If you have been to a few weddings this summer, you may have encountered a dreaded bridezilla. I’m sure you know exactly the type of bride I’m talking about. They are the ones who take on way too much of the wedding preparation and get incredibly stressed out in their quest to organize the perfect day. No one wants to become a bridezilla. But unfortunately, it sometimes happens to women without them even noticing. So how do you prevent yourself from turning into a wedding control freak? Here are some useful tips.
Stay Within Budget
One of the best ways to keep stress at bay is to come up with a reasonable budget and stick to it. After all, there is no better way to get stressed than by getting yourself into debt. So before you even think about booking a venue or buying a dress, take a look at your finances. How much can you afford to spend on your big day? Once you have a figure, you can then start to look for venues, dresses and other wedding necessities that are within your price range. There are plenty of budgeting guides online like http://www.bridesmagazine.co.uk/planning/general/planning-service/2013/01/average-cost-of-wedding
Don’t Do Everything Yourself
Remember that it is perfectly okay to ask others for help. Your partner should by pulling his weight with your wedding organization and planning. If he isn’t, let him know that you could do with his help. You can also ask your parents and bridesmaids for some other bits of preparation help. There are also some companies that can take certain tasks off your hands. For instance, a wedding planner can help you decorate your venues. And you can also hire design firms that can personalize wedding invites for you including http://www.paperthemes.co.uk/wedding-stationery
Ask Someone To Keep Your Behavior In Check
You should ask your maid of honor to keep a check on your behavior and moods. If she thinks that you are suffering from bridezilla-style mood swings or are getting too stressed, she can take you to one side and have a word with you. You may not realize when you are starting to obsess over minor and pointless details. If you have someone keeping an eye on you, you can quickly put a stop on things when you slip into bridezilla territory.
Think About Your Priorities
Does it really matter what type of flowers you have on your reception tables? Or the type of pillows that your ring bearers carry the wedding rings on? At the end of the day, probably not. There is only one thing that truly matters. And that is that you and your partner can enjoy the day celebrating your love. So rather than fussing over the small details, change your priorities and look at the big picture instead.
Stick to all the points in this blog post, and you won’t have to worry about scaring everyone with bridezilla behavior!
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